How to Choose a Wedding Dress Silhouette That Feels Right for You

Wedding dress shopping is exciting, but it can also feel overwhelming at first. With so many silhouettes and styles to choose from, where do you even start?

At The Ultimate Bride, we’ve helped thousands of St. Louis brides figure out what works for their body, their venue, and their vision. And it usually starts with the silhouette. Before you worry about lace or sleeves, it’s helpful to understand the basic shapes and how they’ll look and feel when you try them on.

Here’s a guide to the most popular wedding dress silhouettes and how to choose one that feels right for your body and your day.

What Is a Wedding Dress Silhouette?

The silhouette is the overall shape of the gown. It describes how the dress fits through the bodice, waist, hips, and skirt. Understanding silhouettes helps you narrow down your options and makes the dress shopping process feel a lot more focused.

We always encourage brides at our St. Louis boutique to try on at least one of each silhouette. You might be surprised by what makes you feel the most confident once you see it on your body.

A-Line: Soft Shape and Timeless Style

An A-line gown fits close at the top and flares out gently from the waist, creating a shape similar to the letter A. This style is often a go-to for brides who want definition without too much volume.

Why brides love it:

  • Easy to move in

  • Flattering for many body types

  • Works for casual or formal weddings

We see A-line gowns fly off the racks for everything from church ceremonies to garden venues across St. Louis.

Ballgown: Bold Skirt and Defined Waist

The ballgown is fitted through the bodice and flares out into a full skirt, creating a dramatic and traditional bridal look. It adds volume and structure, especially at the bottom.

Why it works:

  • Emphasizes the waist

  • Offers strong support in the bodice

  • Perfect for formal venues and grand entrances

Many of our brides choose ballgowns for venues like The Coronado or Stifel Theatre where the setting calls for something classic and striking.

Fitted through the bodice and cinched at the waist, this ballgown creates a stunning hourglass shape while the full skirt adds drama and movement.

Fit-and-Flare: Curve-Friendly with Room to Move

Fit-and-flare dresses hug the body through the waist and hips, then gently release around the thigh. They offer shape and movement without being restrictive.

Why brides choose it:

  • Highlights curves

  • Comfortable to wear and dance in

  • Versatile for indoor and outdoor weddings

At The Ultimate Bride, we often recommend this silhouette for brides who want structure but still need flexibility throughout the day.

Mermaid and Trumpet: Sleek and Statement-Making

These styles follow the natural shape of the body more closely. Trumpet gowns flare just below the hip, while mermaid gowns flare lower, around the knee. Both create a modern, confident look.

Ideal for:

  • Brides who want to show off their figure

  • Contemporary or high-fashion looks

  • Confident walkers and dancers

We keep these styles in extended sizes at our St. Louis boutique because they need to be tried on in the correct fit to really shine.

Sheath: Effortless and Minimal

A sheath gown falls straight from the neckline to the hem with little flare. It’s a clean and modern option, often made from lightweight fabrics like crepe or chiffon.

Why it stands out:

  • Streamlined and easy to move in

  • Great for petite, tall, or athletic builds

  • Perfect for outdoor, destination, or less formal weddings

Brides planning vineyard weddings or elopements often lean toward this silhouette for its simplicity and ease.

Sleek from neckline to hem, this sheath gown moves with you effortlessly minimal, modern, and made for any setting.

Tips from Our St. Louis Stylists

  • Start with silhouettes, then explore fabrics and details once you find the shape you like

  • Be open to trying something unexpected, many brides fall in love with a style they never considered

  • Bring proper undergarments and shoes to get a realistic feel for each dress

  • Choose what makes you feel confident, not what fits someone else’s idea of what you should wear

Ready to Try Them On?

At The Ultimate Bride in St. Louis, we carry a wide range of silhouettes. Whether you're just starting or already have a favorite shape in mind, our experienced stylists are here to help you find the one that fits your body and your vision.

Request appointment here or call 314.961.9997 to see what silhouette makes you feel like a bride.

2025 Wedding Dress Trends Our St.Louis Brides Are Already Loving

At The Ultimate Bride, we get a front-row seat to the trends brides are falling for — often before they hit the mainstream. As we look ahead to 2025, some clear favorites are already emerging. Whether you're newly engaged or deep into the dress hunt, here are the trends worth watching (and trying on).


1. Sculpted Simplicity

Clean lines, structured silhouettes, and minimal embellishment — this modern take on bridal elegance continues to shine. Brides are loving the confidence of a fitted crepe gown or a sleek satin ballgown with architectural details like square necklines and sculptural seams.


2. Soft & Sheer Sleeves

Romantic sleeves are here to stay, but 2025 is bringing a softer touch. Think detachable tulle bishop sleeves, barely-there lace, and off-the-shoulder looks that float rather than hug.


It’s a dreamy way to add drama without weight.


3. Statement Bows & Back Details

More and more brides are walking away from the mirror to check the back. Low backs, lace-up corsets, oversized bows, and illusion lace panels are making bold statements from behind. It's all about the “wow” moment as you walk down the aisle.


4. Subtle Sparkle

Gowns with beaded tulle overlays, metallic threading, and light-catching appliqués are delivering glamour in a softer, more romantic way.


It’s all about shimmer that catches the light just enough.

5. Versatile Accessories

From detachable overskirts to bold veils and matching gloves, 2025 brides are embracing accessories that allow them to personalize their look — and change it up between ceremony and reception. It's not just about the dress anymore — it's about the full ensemble.

6. A Touch of Color

While ivory still reigns, designers are leaning into muted tones — blush, mocha, champagne, and even soft blue — to offer more dimension and personality. These shades photograph beautifully and feel just a little unexpected in the best way.

Ready to find your 2025 wedding look?
At The Ultimate Bride, we carry a curated collection of designer gowns (including Essense of Australia and Stella York) that reflect these trends and more. Request appointment here or call 314.961.9997 to make an appointment with one of our expert stylists and find the dress that feels like you.

What St.Louis Plus Size Brides Are Wearing Down the Aisle

If you’re a curvy bride starting your dress search, here’s the good news: the world of bridal fashion has finally caught up. At The Ultimate Bride, we’re seeing more plus-size gowns that aren’t just “extended sizes”, they’re designed with structure, shape, and true style from the start.

From flattering silhouettes to lightweight materials that still bring the drama, here are the styles our plus-size brides in St. Louis are reaching for right now.

1. Fit-and-Flare for Defined Curves

This silhouette is a favorite at our boutique because it strikes the perfect balance: structured through the waist and hips, with enough flare to feel easy and elegant. Our brides love it for highlighting curves without feeling restricted.

Look for:

  • Plunge or sweetheart necklines with illusion mesh for support

  • Soft crepe fabrics that mold without clinging

2. A-Line Dresses for Easy Elegance

Want something floaty but still fitted at the top? A-line dresses are consistently a top pick in our fitting rooms. This shape flatters every body and gives that classic bridal feel without overwhelming your frame.

Brides love:

- Layered tulle skirts for gentle volume

- Defined seams through the bodice to keep everything in place

- Options with sleeves or straps for added comfort and coverage

3. Ballgowns That Bring the Drama

You can absolutely wear a big dress. In fact, we love watching plus-size brides light up when they try on a full-skirted ballgown that actually fits and feels good.

What’s trending:

  • Supportive bodices with built-in shaping

  • Lightweight underskirts (no heavy crinoline!)

  • Dresses with sparkle layered under lace for depth


4. Sleeves & Illusion Details

Some brides want a bit of arm coverage, not to hide anything, but to add interest. At The Ultimate Bride, we stock gowns with sheer bishop sleeves, fitted lace sleeves, and even detachable options if you want two looks in one.

Our tip: 

Don’t be afraid of illusion, lace appliqués and sheer tulle can actually highlight your favorite features with the right placement.

5. Texture, Beading & Modern Sparkle

Plus-size gowns used to play it safe. Not anymore. Designers are finally embracing rich texture, dimensional lace, and sparkle that photographs beautifully.

Favorites among our brides:

  • 3D floral appliqués

  • Tone-on-tone beading that shimmers without going full glitter

  • Soft shimmer tulle layered under the skirt for a glow effect


6. Custom Details That Make It Yours

Want a longer train? Prefer straps to sleeves? Hoping to line the bodice for more coverage? We’ve helped hundreds of brides customize their gowns, and yes, most designers we carry do offer those options. Ask your stylist what’s possible.


Final Thought: The Right Dress Will Feel Like You
We never push our brides into a “flattering” look that doesn’t feel right. The right dress won’t ask you to shrink, squeeze, or settle. It’ll feel like a version of you that’s confident, radiant, and ready to celebrate.

Want to try some of these styles on in your size? Request appointment here or call 314.961.9997 to make an appointment. We carry plus-size gowns up to size 30 in-store, with private fitting rooms and experienced stylists who get it.